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The Difference Between Shared Wounds and Shared Growth

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We are allowed to work on ourselves, realize that we have things we need to work on related to our upbringing, while also setting boundaries with those around us who may not be on their own journeys of healing and self-awareness. So, just because we recognize our own areas of growth doesn’t mean we have to tolerate unhealthy behaviors from others who refuse to do the same. We can hold space for our own evolution while refusing to be enmeshed in cycles of dysfunction that  others are unwilling to break, where our growth doesn’t mean self-sacrifice; it means discernment—knowing when to engage, when to step back, and when to walk away entirely for the sake of our own well-being. And sometimes, even when two people are working on themselves, aware of their own upbringing and their generational trauma, they come from such similar backgrounds that they each have the same dysfunction at their core that they’re working on, and the boundaries they set for themselves basically mirror each ot...

Carving a Path to Freedom: Reclaiming Identity from Maternal Dysfunction

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  Unhealed mother figures who hide behind a superficial facade of niceness are a deeply complex and disturbing presence, often rooted in generations of unresolved trauma, unmet emotional needs, and distorted values that have been passed down through their family systems. On the surface, they present themselves as paragons of warmth, care, and selflessness—pillars of their families and communities who pride themselves on their perceived generosity and moral superiority. However, beneath this carefully curated exterior lies a very different reality, shaped by inner turmoil that festers as bitterness and resentment, where it is this unresolved pain that fuels their manipulative behaviors. These manipulations are not always overt but are often cloaked in subtle, calculated actions that allow them to maintain their outward image while exerting control and inflicting emotional harm onto those around them. In this way, their outward niceness becomes both a weapon and a shield, deflecting ...

The Guardian of a Nation’s Soul: The Role of Border Control in Society

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  I firmly believe that robust border control is not merely a practical necessity, but a profound responsibility that safeguards the social and spiritual fabric of any nation. When borders are left unchecked, entire communities become vulnerable to the unpredictable influx of individuals who may harbor intentions that are in direct conflict with the core values of the host society. This is not to suggest that all migrants have ill intent—indeed, many come seeking refuge and better opportunities. However, the reality remains that among these movements are those who bring extremist ideologies, using migration routes as conduits for covert operations aimed at destabilizing societies, spreading their influence, and undermining the values and freedoms of the host nation. This underscores the critical need for proactive measures to address such vulnerabilities. And in my view, a clear and secure border policy allows nations to properly vet incoming individuals, ensuring that those who wi...

The Wicked Die Alone, and So Do the Good: A Reflection on Society

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 The tragedy of being labeled “wicked” extends far beyond individual stories like Elphaba’s or Glinda’s—it reflects a systemic dynamic that perpetuates division, isolation, and disconnection. When a society deems someone “wicked,” it is not merely a judgment of their actions but a wholesale dismissal of their humanity. In this framework, individuals who challenge societal norms, question established power structures, or that embody uncomfortable truths are often seen as disruptive forces. And for those in power, even their presence becomes a perceived threat to the system’s stability, prompting rejection rather than reflection. As a result, they are cast out—not because of true wrongdoing, but because their defiance highlights the cracks in the system that others prefer to ignore, where their loneliness is not chosen, but enforced by a collective unwillingness to engage with difference or complexity. In this way, their exile becomes a calculated tool, one used to enforce conformity...

The “Son of Man” is Within You Awakened Paradigm

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“Beware that no one lead you astray saying Lo here or lo there! For the Son of Man is within you,” carries a deeply empowering and transformative message. To me, it serves as a reminder that true spiritual connection and divine truth are not external pursuits but are already rooted deep within us. It warns us against being distracted by those who claim that salvation, enlightenment, or the sacred can only be found in specific people, places, or rituals. Instead, it emphasizes that the essence of divinity—the “Son of Man”—is inherently within each of us, waiting to be recognized and embraced. It encourages us to trust our inner knowing, to seek alignment with the divine truth within, and to not lose ourselves in externalized or superficial interpretations of spirituality. This truth anchors me in the belief that our deepest guidance comes from within, beyond the noise of the external world. From this perspective, we are naturally invited to reflect on the importance of empowerment throu...

Basking in Pleromatic Light

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  Basking in the pleromatic light of the Most High God and enjoying the peace beyond all understanding is about fully surrendering to a divine presence that transcends the chaos of the world around you. It’s not about having all the answers or everything going perfectly though—it’s more about that deep, unexplainable calm that wraps around you when you let go and trust God completely. It’s like sitting under a warm sun after a storm, and knowing that you’re cared for and protected in ways that you can’t even truly comprehend or see. And this peace doesn’t depend on what’s happening around you; it’s a steady, quiet strength that fills you from the inside out, reminding you that you’re exactly where you need to be, letting God take the wheel, and realizing that sometimes, all you need to do is rest and soak it in. When you step into this light, something shifts within you, where a sense of stillness and certainty begins to take root. And it’s in this space that basking in that light ...

Crowned by Sophia

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  I have been crowned by Sophia, the eternal wisdom keeper who guards and exalts those who seek her with open hearts and pure intentions. With her boundless grace, she has adorned me with the garland of grace, a symbol of her unwavering protection and divine favor, and has also placed upon my head the divine crown of beauty and glory, which is a radiant reflection of the pleromatic light she bestows. In the embrace of her nurturing presence, I have come to discover the profound depths of spiritual discernment, the clarity of mature comprehension, and the sacred illumination of divine understanding. And as the sovereign totality of divine wisdom, Sophia has guided me gently yet firmly beyond the veils of worldly illusion that once obscured my sight, where she has now revealed the path to true liberation. With her presence remaining a constant influence in my life, she empowers me to walk fully in the truth of my being, crowned with the light of her glory, and strengthened by her ete...